Movida Craze and A Special Message

I cannot believe it. I have not been blogging for more than 30 days. Perhaps it was the every increasing pressure from my assignments and tests that had prevented me from writing. I guess it is. However, do not be disgruntled. Nothing particularly bad happened to me lately. What did happen was a month full of entertainment and making new friends in life.

I have been to this new club known as Movida, ST James Powerhouse. It is located opposite Vivo City, the newest shopping center in Singapore. What I like about this place is that it is the only club in Singapore that has managed to play different genres of music from all around the world, in particularly Salsa and Merengue songs, Arabic, Jamaican, Reggae and many more. I was superbly impressed by the deejay with his ever talent and skills in choosing the appropriate songs. I was even more enchanted by the ever engaging resident band, La Ranura. The band’s musical styles include latin, chachacha, cumbia, salsa, merengue, son, folk etc, reggae, rock, pop, blues, afrosamba rhythm, brazilian songs, marchinas and more. What can be better than that? I love it! Therefore, you can imagine myself, there always every weekend. The Music is good for my soul.

What fascinates me further is the ever great friendship that I have discovered for this past one month. I have created closed friends. One of them,Nazir, has been following to Movida many times and I can say that I have converted him to be a Salsa and Merengue Fan. What matter most here is not about my influence, rather, it is the hope that he can recover quickly from his recent break up with his girlfriend. I have met people that have shocked me in their ways of life but I have also come across people who wanted to be my friend. What better compliment can I have when I received an sms message from someone who states that I am special. Oh my, did i just impress that person so much? I did not mean to do it deliberately but I do hope I can be inspirational to many people in my life. I really do. I guess that is my destiny in life.

As the years go by, I gained many enriching experiences that have made me to who I am today. I hope I do not have to make enemies anymore to anyone. I rather do my part in this world, to make someone, find a reason to live when all things fail to them. I guess I am destined to do that.

Now, the question is. Who is my guardian angel? I have yet to know that. Stay Tuned.

The One?

Hmm.. This is interesting. I have taken quite a long thought on this as I had just discussed this topic with SPG a couple of days ago online. Apparently, she was kind of telling me off that I should not just jump into conclusion that Annie, my ex girlfriend, was the one for me as I only knew her for 4 months.

Now, everybody has their opinion on this. To me, SPG is just having some issues in commitment. In other words, she is afraid of committing herself into marital relationship or other than that she has not found the kind of boyfriend that has yet wanted to marry her sincerely. For me, I have yet to find the right one although every new girlfriend, I met, I will treat her as "the one". I see it as nothing at all. I will always treat my new girlfriends, as the right one, though I am never sure she will there with me forever. No one is really sure though. All of these are just fate.

I have never believed in long term relationships that will end in nothing than just a long term "affair" with no marriage vows taken. It is not only a waste of time and money but it is also emotionally disturbing to oneself. The problem with people when they met the right one, they will always try their best to make it happen. The problem with me is not myself though. It is my destiny to fulfill certain things or criteria in life before I can jump start into another life. What is more important is that, I am happy always. I am surrounded with best of friends around. I am now courting a new girlfriend. I am enjoying life as how other bachelors are doing and it seems that I happen to know that some of my colleagues who are married, longed to have my kind of life now as they are so pre-occupied with their newborns and wife. Can you believe that? It is one of the confession of my classmate and he told me how he regretted not to enjoy life thoroughly before marrying his wife. He feels very sad about it. I feel sad for him.

Anyway, SPG meant well with her remarks that came out of a sudden. I can understand her pain now as she will be admitted to a hospital next week for a surgery. Who will not be moody or upset about it, right? My prayers for her always. Hey, put it this way, only SPG has the right to knock my brains out with some opinions. It is not ghastly but it is her right as she has been my friend for the last 18 years. Excellent and cheers.