The One?

Hmm.. This is interesting. I have taken quite a long thought on this as I had just discussed this topic with SPG a couple of days ago online. Apparently, she was kind of telling me off that I should not just jump into conclusion that Annie, my ex girlfriend, was the one for me as I only knew her for 4 months.

Now, everybody has their opinion on this. To me, SPG is just having some issues in commitment. In other words, she is afraid of committing herself into marital relationship or other than that she has not found the kind of boyfriend that has yet wanted to marry her sincerely. For me, I have yet to find the right one although every new girlfriend, I met, I will treat her as "the one". I see it as nothing at all. I will always treat my new girlfriends, as the right one, though I am never sure she will there with me forever. No one is really sure though. All of these are just fate.

I have never believed in long term relationships that will end in nothing than just a long term "affair" with no marriage vows taken. It is not only a waste of time and money but it is also emotionally disturbing to oneself. The problem with people when they met the right one, they will always try their best to make it happen. The problem with me is not myself though. It is my destiny to fulfill certain things or criteria in life before I can jump start into another life. What is more important is that, I am happy always. I am surrounded with best of friends around. I am now courting a new girlfriend. I am enjoying life as how other bachelors are doing and it seems that I happen to know that some of my colleagues who are married, longed to have my kind of life now as they are so pre-occupied with their newborns and wife. Can you believe that? It is one of the confession of my classmate and he told me how he regretted not to enjoy life thoroughly before marrying his wife. He feels very sad about it. I feel sad for him.

Anyway, SPG meant well with her remarks that came out of a sudden. I can understand her pain now as she will be admitted to a hospital next week for a surgery. Who will not be moody or upset about it, right? My prayers for her always. Hey, put it this way, only SPG has the right to knock my brains out with some opinions. It is not ghastly but it is her right as she has been my friend for the last 18 years. Excellent and cheers.